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The Mental Load of Menstruation: How Your Cycle Impacts Your Mental Health

  • Writer: Hansika Khokhar
    Hansika Khokhar
  • Mar 21
  • 3 min read

Updated: Apr 10


Do you remember the times you start getting random cravings? Or when you feel like sleeping in for long periods? Or maybe you find yourself feeling emotional out of nowhere? These experiences are quite common, and most women have felt them before or during their periods. While these symptoms may vary for different individuals, they should not be dismissed as "just PMS" or used as a reason to undermine someone’s feelings—because let’s be honest, that’s both rude and frustrating.

But have you ever wondered about the psychology behind mood swings and emotional changes during this time? Let's explore how hormonal fluctuations affect mental health and what can be done to manage them.


Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS) and Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD)


Many women experience symptoms of Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS), including bloating, fatigue, mood swings, and irritability. However, for some women, the emotional symptoms are more severe and significantly impact daily life. This is often referred to as Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD).


PMDD is a more intense form of PMS, affecting 5-10% of women in their reproductive years. Unlike PMS, PMDD is marked by significant mood disturbances that can disrupt relationships and impair daily functioning. Women with PMDD may experience clinical levels of depression, anxiety, and irritability in the week or two leading up to their period.


Common symptoms of PMDD include:

  • Irritability

  • Depressed mood

  • Anxiety

  • Mood swings


Perimenopausal Depression


Menopause is the permanent cessation of menstruation, while perimenopause is the transition leading up to menopause. During this period, hormonal fluctuations can cause irregular periods, hot flashes, insomnia, vaginal dryness, and mood disturbances. Some women experience a combination of PMS and menopausal symptoms, while others may not have any symptoms at all.

The hormonal shifts during perimenopause can increase vulnerability to depression and anxiety, even in women with no prior history of mental health concerns. Because these symptoms develop gradually, many women mistake them for a permanent life change rather than a treatable condition.


Symptoms of perimenopausal depression may include:

  • Emotional flatness

  • Feeling overwhelmed or unable to cope

  • Increased irritability

  • Social withdrawal

  • Tearfulness

  • Low energy and lack of enjoyment in daily activities


Managing the Mental Load of Your Menstrual Cycle


The emotional and psychological changes associated with hormonal fluctuations can be challenging, but there are ways to manage symptoms and maintain mental well-being. Here are some helpful strategies:


  1. Make Healthy Lifestyle Choices: A balanced diet, regular exercise, and adequate sleep can help stabilize mood and reduce symptoms. 

  2. Try Different Treatments: Hormonal treatments, cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), and natural supplements (such as magnesium and vitamin B6) may help alleviate symptoms. 

  3. Seek Professional Support: If you experience severe emotional distress, reach out to a healthcare provider for guidance and potential treatment options.


Understanding how your menstrual cycle affects your mental health can help you take control of your emotional well-being. Whether you're dealing with PMS, PMDD, or perimenopausal changes, being informed and proactive can make a significant difference in managing your symptoms. Remember—your feelings are valid, and help is available!


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